willman:you might use some lecithin powder or butter flavored shortening in the icing or even try to whip it longer to incorporate more air thus making it more stiff.
Willman, Have you used the lecithin powder in your buttercream? I have heard that recommended before, but never wanted to try it because it had an odor and didn’t want to take a chance of making the icing smell. Maybe some kinds have less odor then others. I know it is used in making chocolate, and I didn’t notice that smell in a Hershey bar, but cocoa does have a stronge enough aroma to mask it. How much and what kind do you use in your buttercream?